Revenge ideas tired of boyfriend using dating sites
He needs to know that he didn’t break you and more than anything, he needs to know that you’re not only okay without him but you’re .
You want to mess up his life like he messed up yours; you want him to feel and experience the insecurity, shame, humiliation and heartbreak that he put you through. Whether it’s been friends, boyfriends, classmates, coworkers or family members that have hurt me, I’ve been there and I’ve spent hours orchestrating massive revenge play-by-plays that would put any scene in to shame.
It’s important to find ways to fill the space, bit by bit. I cringe when I think of all the years I wasted worrying about emotionally unavailable f*cktards when I could have invested that time in myself. I was plotting “revenge” and got the email alert and this could have not have come at a better time.
I’m going to work on rebuilding my self esteem, get some healthy boundaries and learn to love myself. I’ve passed this blog on to all the women in my life, and also those with daughters. I am gonna be honest I did slip up in the beginning and went “bat shxt crazy” but I got my composure back and have not contacted him….
If you have a ton of crap on your ex and you know you could ruin him with one push of a “send” button or you find yourself continually fantasizing about running into him looking worse that ever while you look like the reason the “100” emoji was created with Don Draper as your date, the urge is there and it’s real. You want to make him feel as small as he made you feel, you want him to Liam-Neeson--style suffer and feel the wrath of what he put you through.
They might call you fat in front of your friends, or make fun of your clothes. You don’t understand what went wrong, or why your partner acts the way they do or what you can do to make things better.
Even if you were perfect, your partner would make you out to be completely messed up. They can be funny, easy-going, exciting, attractive. You feel a pull to them, and they make you feel special. They act as if they are the smartest, hottest, richest or most successful person and everyone knows it. You did something wrong first to make them explode.
If he or she does something that is clearly wrong, they will find a way to turn it back around on you. They will even tell you this if they get the chance. The police have always been out to get them even though they never do anything wrong.
He started texting me “please don’t be telling my family all the craziness-that is uncalled for.” Sorry asshole what’s uncalled for is that you were lying and still telling people we were still together and that I work a lot which is why they didn’t see me with him anymore! Anyway, he kept texting and texting and then I just blocked him for good. Xoxo 🙂Thank you Natasha 🙂 Putting all that negative energy towards a positive use (ourselves) is always the way to go.
I don’t know-I know what Natasha is saying, but I also have to say it felt good to beat him at the punch. Now that I’m not glued to my phone because of him, I have more free time to exercise, hike or discover a brand new hobby. Your blog has changed my life, I only wish you had been around 15 years ago when I started dating.
If they hit you, they will make you feel like it was because of something you did wrong. Talk to a member of the opposite sex, they interrogate you about it. You better be ready to explain where you were and what you were doing and why you were doing it. Teachers and bosses are trying to make things hard for them on purpose.