Dating and communication problems
(If you want to learn the suprising and counterintuitive way to support a man when he has a bad day, click HERE) So instead of asking “How was your day” and getting that obnoxious one word answer or trying to interview him fishing for drama, ask him “What did you do today? He likes showing his woman how smart, clever, strong and capable he is. This way you can inspire both of your intuitive communication styles. A woman experiences intimacy through sharing her feelings, stories, and experiences but only when a man sits in front of her, looks her in the eyes, and really listens. If your dinner conversations are light, know that you are the one who should be doing the talking.
-Holly Hey Holly, Right now, you are taking this silent treatment as a sign for “the end of days,” and it’s freaking you out. For women, talking and sharing is a form of intimacy.
Perhaps what you say doesn't always match how you feel.
There are a lot of reasons a man might not call, but a big one that will have any good guy running in the opposite direction is a woman who's not a good communicator. Sometimes it looks like you use your ears more than your mouth.
He can talk about the problem solving aspects and the steps of action necessary to achieve the goal. The other day I spent almost the whole day in front of the computer and I needed a break.
If he’s a little slow to start, feel free to prompt him with questions and ask him for his advice. I caught my sweetie right as he was about to lie down for a nap. But instead of leaving him alone, I said, He launched into a play by play of his day that maybe took 3 minutes. I talked and talked and then sometimes we were silent.
My #1 Relationship Mistake I had an unusual childhood.